Right before graduation, I submitted my first appeal. I received a letter after graduation stating that the disciplinary probation would be upheld, but there was no explanation. On the day of Commencement, I finally completed jury duty. At least I didn't have to worry about that for another four years.
Preparing my second appeal was such a lengthy process because this was my last chance. I reached out to whoever could assist me. At the end of June, the final appeal and all supporting documents were submitted. It was out of my hands, and I could only hope that these people reviewing my case would be moved when they read what I've had to say... and that they would make the right decision.
After three long months, I received an e-mail with an attached letter. My heart was pounding as I opened the PDF file. I calmly read the entire letter and I reread it until it hit me... The appeal ended up in my favor! In middle of the night, I was screaming inwardly. No more waiting, no more wondering if the final appeal changed anything, no more worrying about explaining my academic record or even thinking about obtaining legal assistance! I didn't sleep much that night, but I finally had something to be ecstatic about this year.
The executive committee didn't believe that an ethical violation was intentionally committed, so I'm allowed to attend the graduation ceremonies next May with a clean academic record, pending successful completion of all program requirements. My family, friends, everyone who spent their time assisting me, and even people who heard about my story were ecstatic when they heard the good news. I'm so grateful, and I really could have not have my good name restored without their support.
It took an entire summer to recover from all the hardships I endured this year. For the first time in my life, I was genuinely worried about the potential effects my academic situation could have on my future... I only had friends and family to fall back on. I even saw a therapist for a short time. Later on, I focused on training for Tough Mudder, which I successfully completed with my awesome teammates a month ago!
Things are definitely looking up now... I've been quite busy, but I'm happy to finally have my life back. I started attending Church again (well, I'm trying to go more often). I participated in the Step Out Walk to Stop Diabetes, and volunteered in the post-Sandy cleanup at East River Park. I may volunteer at a soup kitchen sometime during the holidays. Last but not least, I just started tutoring and I love it.
Although I'm not registered for any courses this semester, I took an elective: New Perspectives in Marketing. During the Spring semester, I hope to complete an optional Pediatrics Level II fieldwork before I retake the course. I'm also interested in volunteering for Bottomless Closet to help women obtain employment. So much to do, so little time...
Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! I have so much to be thankful for this year, and I hope you do as well! :)
